GAMES FOR PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE COUPLES – GAME 1: THE MASTER AND THE MAID (PART 3)
The main difficulty for the wife is to overcome her accumulation of hurt pride. Her husband’s passive-aggression and sexual frustration tactics may have left her bitter, and at the moment she might rather strangle than charm him. But she must transcend this impulse and channel it into her mischievous seduction. She must also not allow his initial avoidance or insulting behavior to derail her efforts, but must carry on, no matter what. Even if the seduction does not work on the first night or the second, it may just click four nights later.
Once he takes the bait, the wife should encourage him to make love to her aggressively. “Do it to me—do it, do it!” she may beg. “Yes, yes, yes—that’s the way I like it.” And during the act itself, she should encourage him to verbalize his anger at her. “I’ll bet you really hate me sometimes, don’t you?”
“That’s right, you bitch, I do!” he may say.
“How much do you hate me?”
“A lot!”
“A lot?”
“Yes, a lot.”
“I am showing you.”
“Show me more.”
“You brazen slut!”
“Yes!”
“You really are a brazen slut, aren’t you?”
If it succeeds, this game serves two purposes at the same time: It gets the aggressive wife out of the aggressive, persecutory mode and into a more seductive, receptive mode; and it nudges the husband out of his passive-aggressive mode and into a more erotic, directly aggressive mode. In accomplishing this, the game also diminishes the frustrations of both husband and wife and facilitates a more honest and open discussion of both their sexuality and their relationship in general.
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